How to Get Help for a Drinking Problem: 6 First Steps

How to get help for a drinking problem starts with one honest conversation, usually with a doctor or a free helpline. That conversation can also begin with someone you trust.

From our experience, the hardest part is often making that first call. Our admissions team hears the same question from people considering treatment: "Is my drinking bad enough?"

This guide walks you through six practical steps, from recognizing when drinking may be a concern to finding the right level of care and building support for recovery.

Six steps to get help for a drinking problem

Getting help for a drinking problem does not require having a diagnosis or knowing which treatment you need. These six steps can help you understand your options, assess any withdrawal risks, and find support that fits your situation.

1. Check your drinking against the warning signs

You may be unsure whether your drinking has become a problem. Start by looking at how often you drink, how much you consume, and whether alcohol is affecting your health, relationships, work, or daily responsibilities.

NIAAA lists 11 symptoms used to assess alcohol use disorder (AUD). Experiencing two or more symptoms within a 12-month period meets the symptom criteria for AUD. A healthcare professional can assess your situation and make a diagnosis¹.

For more guidance, read our articles on whether you may be addicted to alcohol and the warning signs of alcoholism.

2. Talk to your primary care doctor

A primary care doctor can help you understand how alcohol may be affecting your health. They can ask about your drinking habits, review your medical history, and screen for alcohol use disorder.

Be as honest as you can about how much you drink, how often you drink, and what happens when you go without alcohol. You do not need to minimize your drinking or have all the answers before making an appointment.

Your doctor may recommend additional assessments, discuss treatment options, or refer you to a specialist. If you have concerns about withdrawal, tell them before attempting to stop drinking².

3. Contact a helpline or treatment admissions team

You do not have to figure out treatment options alone. A helpline can explain available services and help you identify where to start.

SAMHSA's National Helpline is free, confidential, and available 24/7. Call 1-800-662-4357 for information about treatment and support services in the United States. Assistance is available in English and Spanish³. You can also contact SOBA Recovery's admissions team at (866) 707-4894 to discuss available programs and check insurance benefits before admission.

If you're nervous about making that first call, read our guide to what to expect when you contact a rehab center.

4. Get medically assessed before stopping

If you have been drinking heavily or regularly for an extended period, speak with a healthcare professional before stopping. Alcohol withdrawal can be dangerous, and a medical assessment can help determine whether supervised detox is appropriate.

5. Choose the right level of care

The right treatment depends on your health, drinking history, withdrawal risk, and support needs. Some people benefit from outpatient services, while others need residential treatment or medically supervised detox first.

6. Build a support and relapse-prevention plan

Treatment does not end when someone completes a program. Your plan might include individual counseling, family support, peer recovery groups, or continued outpatient care. It should also account for what you can do if you return to drinking. A return to drinking does not mean you have failed or that treatment cannot help.

Our aftercare and sober living options can help people maintain support as they transition from structured treatment to everyday life.

Is it safe to stop drinking on your own?

Not always. If you have been drinking heavily for a prolonged period, suddenly stopping can cause alcohol withdrawal. Symptoms can range from uncomfortable to life-threatening, so it is important to get medical advice before quitting⁴.

Severe withdrawal can cause seizures or delirium tremens. Call 911 if someone experiences a seizure, severe confusion, or hallucinations. These symptoms require immediate medical attention⁵.

If you or someone you know is experiencing emotional distress or having thoughts of suicide, call or text the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline for free, confidential support in the United States.

At SOBA Recovery, detox begins with a medical assessment on arrival. Our clinical team develops an individualized detox protocol and provides 24/7 monitoring and medication management for withdrawal symptoms.

Learn more about medical detox in Arizona or explore detox in Mesa. For more information, read our guides to the dangers of quitting alcohol cold turkey and the alcohol withdrawal timeline.

Types of help for a drinking problem

Treatment for a drinking problem can take several forms. The right level of care depends on your drinking history, physical health, withdrawal risk, and support needs. NIAAA identifies four broad levels of treatment, ranging from outpatient appointments to intensive inpatient care⁶.

Level of care	What it involves	SOBA Recovery program
Outpatient	Scheduled treatment sessions while you live at home.	Outpatient
Intensive outpatient or partial hospitalization	More frequent treatment sessions, often several days a week, without overnight stays.	Intensive outpatient and partial hospitalization
Residential 24-hour care	Structured treatment in a residential setting with support available around the clock.	Residential inpatient treatment
Intensive inpatient care	Hospital-level treatment for people who need intensive medical care, including management of severe withdrawal.	Medical assessment can help determine whether a higher level of medical care is needed.

SOBA Recovery offers a continuum of care that includes medical detox, residential inpatient treatment, partial hospitalization, intensive outpatient, outpatient services, sober living, and aftercare. Having these services available in one place can help people transition between levels of care as their needs change.

Explore our guide to levels of addiction care or learn more about inpatient vs outpatient rehab in Arizona. If you're unsure where to begin, SOBA's admissions team can help explain the available programs and check your insurance benefits before admission.

Questions to ask a treatment program

Choosing a treatment program is an important decision. Before committing, ask how the program works, what support it provides, and whether it can address your individual needs. The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) recommends asking questions such as⁷:

• What types of treatment does the program offer? Ask whether it provides medical detox, residential treatment, outpatient care, or other services.
• Is treatment tailored to the individual? Your care plan should reflect your health, drinking history, and personal circumstances.
• Does the program address mental health alongside drinking? Ask whether it can treat co-occurring mental health conditions as part of the same care plan.
• What will the program expect from you? Understand the schedule, participation requirements, and responsibilities involved.
• How does the program measure progress? Ask how your treatment team evaluates your progress and adjusts your care plan.
• How does the program respond if you return to drinking? Find out what support is available and whether your treatment plan can be adjusted.

At SOBA Recovery, several details can help you understand the care and support available. We are dually licensed to provide substance use and mental health treatment. Our dual diagnosis program addresses mental health and substance use together.

We are also accredited by The Joint Commission and certified by LegitScript. Before admission, we check insurance benefits to help clarify coverage and potential costs.

For more guidance, read our article on choosing a rehab in Arizona.

How to help someone with a drinking problem

Talking to someone about their drinking can be difficult, especially if they do not recognize that alcohol has become a problem. You may worry about upsetting them or damaging your relationship. Still, expressing concern can open the door to a conversation about getting help.

MedlinePlus recommends choosing a time when the person is not drinking. Keep the conversation calm and focus on specific behaviors rather than making accusations⁸. A few approaches can help:

• Use "I" statements. Explain how their drinking affects you without blaming them. For example, say, "I'm worried about you because you've missed work several times after drinking."
• Stick to facts. Describe specific situations you've noticed instead of making assumptions about their intentions.
• Avoid labels. Words like "alcoholic" can make someone feel judged or defensive. Talk about their drinking and its effects instead.
• Offer practical support. Ask whether they would like you to accompany them to a doctor's appointment, counseling session, or treatment consultation.
• Find support for yourself. Supporting someone with a drinking problem can be emotionally difficult. Groups such as Al-Anon offer support for families and friends affected by someone else's drinking⁹.

You cannot force a loved one to recognize a drinking problem or accept treatment. It may take several conversations before they feel ready to consider help. Keep communication open while maintaining boundaries that protect your own well-being⁸.

Offering support does not mean covering up the consequences of someone's drinking, making excuses for their behavior, or taking responsibility for their recovery. Understanding the difference between enabling vs helping can help you offer support without reinforcing harmful patterns.

If you're unsure how to approach the conversation, read our guide on how to get a friend help with addiction. Families considering a more structured conversation can also learn how to stage an intervention in Arizona.

Frequently asked questions

Is there free, confidential help for a drinking problem?

Yes. SAMHSA's National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 offers free, confidential support 24/7 in English and Spanish³. It connects individuals and families with information about treatment options and local support services. You can reach out even if you're unsure what kind of help you need.

Can you stop drinking without AA?

Yes. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is one option, but it isn't the only path to recovery. Counseling, outpatient programs, and residential treatment can also help someone address their drinking⁶. At SOBA Recovery, we recognize that treatment should reflect each person's needs. Our guide to alternatives to 12-step programs explores other approaches to recovery.

What if a loved one refuses help for their drinking?

Keep the door open, maintain healthy boundaries, and prepare for the possibility that they may eventually accept help. You cannot force someone to recognize a drinking problem, but you can express concern without judgment and make treatment information available⁸.

Ready to Talk About Getting Help?

You do not need to have it all figured out before you call. Our admissions team answers 24/7 on (866) 707-4894, and we will talk through what help could look like for you.

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